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He looks uncomfortable talking about it.herman said:https://twitter.com/tsn_sports/status/1199051549491810304
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He looks uncomfortable talking about it.herman said:https://twitter.com/tsn_sports/status/1199051549491810304
Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:This is getting to be pretty funny. I read these boards regularly and I don't recall anybody here discussing Babcock in these extreme terms. All kinds of criticism of stubbornness, being out of touch, etc. ? things not much different than folks on here said when PQ began to go stale, or of others coaches when their shtick gets old. But that is not at all the same as accusing someone of being a near-sociopath.
As for the media cozying up to coaches, GMs, etc. ? that's the least surprising, least confusing thing in the world. But I have always been given to understand that there are levels of hockey media, running from the in-the-pocket anodyne shills like Hendricks to the ? supposedly ? "real" journos, presumably at places like The Athletic. I would have thought that the latter would have spun at least a few stories at least referencing these supposed ingrained character defects. Did they?
I guess I have a higher standard for sports journalists than most bother with.
Nik Bethune said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:As for the media cozying up to coaches, GMs, etc. ? that's the least surprising, least confusing thing in the world. But I have always been given to understand that there are levels of hockey media, running from the in-the-pocket anodyne shills like Hendricks to the ? supposedly ? "real" journos, presumably at places like The Athletic. I would have thought that the latter would have spun at least a few stories at least referencing these supposed ingrained character defects. Did they?
I guess I have a higher standard for sports journalists than most bother with.
It's not just a matter of journalism though. Reality is that a lot of fans would look at a story like that and react wildly differently to it if the team was winning vs. if they weren't. That these stories are coming out now are as much about the fact that the Leafs weren't playing well as it is the fact that Babcock got fired.
Look at anything that ever gets written about Bill Belichick. There's a guy who's almost universally acknowledged as a sociopath and Pats fans will react with "Hurr durr, count da rings".
CarltonTheBear said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:This is getting to be pretty funny. I read these boards regularly and I don't recall anybody here discussing Babcock in these extreme terms. All kinds of criticism of stubbornness, being out of touch, etc. ? things not much different than folks on here said when PQ began to go stale, or of others coaches when their shtick gets old. But that is not at all the same as accusing someone of being a near-sociopath.
As for the media cozying up to coaches, GMs, etc. ? that's the least surprising, least confusing thing in the world. But I have always been given to understand that there are levels of hockey media, running from the in-the-pocket anodyne shills like Hendricks to the ? supposedly ? "real" journos, presumably at places like The Athletic. I would have thought that the latter would have spun at least a few stories at least referencing these supposed ingrained character defects. Did they?
I guess I have a higher standard for sports journalists than most bother with.
I hope this doesn't come off as a weird question, but are you doubting that this story actually happened? Because as you can see in the video a couple posts up Marner essentially confirmed it's validity.
Edit: and of course Babcock himself confirmed that this happened as well.
Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:What makes you think I doubt that it happened?
Nik Bethune said:Apparently the coach Aliu was talking about is Bill Peters.
CarltonTheBear said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:What makes you think I doubt that it happened?
I dunno, some of your comments just seemed like it was standing up for Babcock. Maybe I was just reading it wrong, which is why I wanted to clarify. If you want to say "NHL media sucks because they sat on this story for years until Babs was out" I don't think anyone will disagree with you. Some of us just feel like that's par for the course at this point I guess.
TML fan said:Is it really necessary to tear the man down after he's been fired? It's all in the past. The Leafs made a decision that they believed will make their team better. All this mud slinging is just sad. Babcock was good for the Leafs until he wasn't. I hope Keefe is good for the Leafs too.
Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:I am not standing up for him in the sense of denying or discounting what's being claimed about him; I haven't bothered to check into the allegations. I am expressing a fair amount of disbelief that the hockey media *could* have, as a group, squelched this overall storyline of his alleged personal toxicity for so many years. My personal experience is that very few people can keep secrets, especially "juicy" ones. A whole class of people (i.e., hockey media), over so many years? I have a hard time believing that. Seems like there could be a herd mentality leading to some exaggeration here.
Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:CarltonTheBear said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:What makes you think I doubt that it happened?
I dunno, some of your comments just seemed like it was standing up for Babcock. Maybe I was just reading it wrong, which is why I wanted to clarify. If you want to say "NHL media sucks because they sat on this story for years until Babs was out" I don't think anyone will disagree with you. Some of us just feel like that's par for the course at this point I guess.
I am not standing up for him in the sense of denying or discounting what's being claimed about him; I haven't bothered to check into the allegations. I am expressing a fair amount of disbelief that the hockey media *could* have, as a group, squelched this overall storyline of his alleged personal toxicity for so many years. My personal experience is that very few people can keep secrets, especially "juicy" ones. A whole class of people (i.e., hockey media), over so many years? I have a hard time believing that. Seems like there could be a herd mentality leading to some exaggeration here.
After this story broke on the weekend as we flew back from Denver, I spent Monday talking to a lot of people around the team, including some of Babcock?s former players, their agents and others close to the situation over the last few years.
Some of the main takeaways:
1. A lot of this kind of stuff does not get out because players are very team-focused and not anxious to publicly go against their coach or GM ? especially in a place like Toronto. It?s part of hockey?s culture that you suck it up and take what is thrown at you. It?s also self-preservation, as making incidents public could have a negative impact on your career or your relationship with other coaches or managers. No one wants to be seen as ?soft? or a malcontent. And Babcock was a massive figure in the game, one of the winningest coaches ever, someone who would be intimidating for anyone to challenge, let alone a green rookie.
2. Babcock is more guilty of these mind games than most NHL coaches, based on talking to those who have played for him. He liked to pick favourites and didn?t often explain why he was so hard on others. And once you were in his doghouse, you rarely escaped. One former player explained he spent part of one frustrating season under Babcock Googling articles about the coach to try and figure out how he could win him over. (He never did.) Those situations often left more than just the players targeted frustrated with Babcock, as teammates didn?t like seeing others singled out and browbeaten.
Often times, people within orgs will give information off the record for context, but expect the media member they tell to use it for context only and not burn them.
Source burning is more than just losing access. Often times, off the record info is given with trust.
It's not just about dirty secrets. Sometimes, it's something as simple as being told a player is dealing with something personal, so to hold off on speculations or reports. Other times, it's player observations from a coach that help you do your job, but aren't for public eye.
There's also the question of whether or not you want to make things even harder on a player in a situation like the Babcock one.
If there's a media/public firestorm over a situation like that, you have to think: will this make things worse on the player you're 'protecting'?
My rule of thumb for reporting things told via access: will not reporting the information cause harm to someone? If not, is it worth these other consequences - lost trust, potentially making things worse for the player - just to get the 'scoop'?
Often times, it's not.
I'm sure some media sat on the story because they wanted to protect Babcock. But we spend so much time clawing and howling for information that we don't always consider: we don't *actually* need to know every little piece of gossip that goes down. Hope that adds perspective.
Andy said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:CarltonTheBear said:Zanzibar Buck-Buck McFate said:What makes you think I doubt that it happened?
I dunno, some of your comments just seemed like it was standing up for Babcock. Maybe I was just reading it wrong, which is why I wanted to clarify. If you want to say "NHL media sucks because they sat on this story for years until Babs was out" I don't think anyone will disagree with you. Some of us just feel like that's par for the course at this point I guess.
I am not standing up for him in the sense of denying or discounting what's being claimed about him; I haven't bothered to check into the allegations. I am expressing a fair amount of disbelief that the hockey media *could* have, as a group, squelched this overall storyline of his alleged personal toxicity for so many years. My personal experience is that very few people can keep secrets, especially "juicy" ones. A whole class of people (i.e., hockey media), over so many years? I have a hard time believing that. Seems like there could be a herd mentality leading to some exaggeration here.
So you're acknowledging that these incidents happened but you think the reporting of them is being exaggerated? What does that mean?